Does Media and LAW maker learnt any think from Latest Nisha Sharma Dowry Case?

Originally  posted by Swarup Sarkar

Does Media and LAW maker learnt any think from Latest Nisha Sharma Dowry Case? 
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3-Years Back some of my good Friends of INB7 was very angry on me , when I write this article: Worst programme of Zindagi Line (IBN7) and Promotions of Yellow Journalism in the name of dowry death More than 56000 married men end thier life every year,... 
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Tags:Nisha Sharma, Manish Dalal, Dowry, Media 
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3-Years Back some of my good Friends of INB7 was very angry on me , when I write this article:

Worst programme of Zindagi Line (IBN7) and Promotions of Yellow Journalism in the name of dowry death

More than 56000 married men end thier life every year, does the killing the Husbands to be termed in this country as "Social Service'? 

More than 15000 unmarried women end thier life, before marrage...why the same not termed as dowry death?
Why only when a married woemn end thier life , the same termed as dowry death? Have you ever checked that? 

With reference to your telecast on Sunday regarding the dowry givers sitting in your programme and they have only verbal allegations, no evidence from their end to justify their claim, we surprised, when as per law the "Dowry giving is a offence" and when the person is accepted they had "given the dowry" , means the crime had been proved behond reasonable dought , why they have not send behind the bar? 

How they are in your studio, instead of behind the bar? 

Unable to understand, why your team failed to raise this valid questions, when they done the crime, how many days they had been put in jail?

Does a criminal who accept his crime to be given special treatment?

More than 15000 unmarried women also end their life every year as per crime bure Report , but why we do not term the same dowry death and send the girl's parents behind the bar? 

Why it should be balmed the husbands family , whenever the married women end their life, it is dowry death?

More than 70% cases it is the husbands family proved their innocence and rest 30% punished as they have not preserved their evidence of innocence or police destroyed their evidences , when they was in jail, do you know that?

Now when the Judgement came the News we find :

Rebel bride's dowry charge junked

GREATER NOIDA: She hit the headlines nine years ago after calling off her wedding in front of 200 guests, alleging the groom's family had demanded a massive dowry at the last minute. But on Wednesday, all the fame and media adulation Nisha Sharma cornered in 2003 seemed misplaced when a court here declared she had fabricated the dowry charges to wriggle out of the nuptials.

Calling Sharma's action pre-meditated, the chief judicial magistrate at Gautam Budh Nagar district courts, Vipin Rai, acquitted all the four accused in the case - the groom Munish Dalal, his mother Vidya Dalal, his aunt Savitri Sharma, and Nisha's former classmate Navneet Rai.

After examining the evidence produced in court, the CJM ruled that Sharma was close to her classmate Navneet Rai and wished to marry him. Her family had discussed the alliance with Rai's family but it did not work out. Sharma's father then betrothed her to Dalal. The order says Sharma was unhappy with the match and had set her heart on marrying Navneet, so she cooked up the dowry story.

During investigation, Rai himself had testified against Sharma. Munish Dalal had claimed at the time that Navneet met and told him about his relationship with the woman.

So, today the question is Does media and Law maker learnt any think and ready to accpet that "The verbal alligation of a women can't be taken as truth , as no one born in Raja Harish Chandra Family" and a person is Innocent till Proven Guilty ?

Unfortunately the last two days my exprence is Negative as in last 2-days we wittness to cover up thier earlier worng doing, now again thay had started to telecast a lot of Anti-Husbands story by taking one sided Story of wives and there is no mention of thier Husbands version or aligation.

Many more Manish Dala is created even today and News Bordcasters keeping Blind eye on them. They do not show any Husbands suffering story one sided, they want evidence, Judgment copy and also the wife side version , but when wives give thier one sided version, media do not even brother to take the Husbands side story and term thm criminal and forget all women do not born in Raja Harish Chandra Family and a Person is innocent till Proven Guilty.

Last 60 years more and more duplications of LAW made in the name of dowry and still we are crying the same not stopped and increasing , the basic questions is are our government or NCW and IBN7 team , really want to stop this so called Dowry System?

If the Answer is "YES", then the first step to be taken on: Section 8B on Dowry Prohibition Officers.

· Any marriage involve with Dowry to be termed as illegal and void marriage and special task force of Dowry Prohibition officers to be appointed and start raid in marriage functions and all the Dowry articles to be taken in custody and the fine to be imposed on both the party and all the same should go to Government fund and the same will be used for the real empower of women , like their educations/jobs and make them self dependent , instead of treating the Husbands family as Free ATM machine. 

· Parents should give the equal rights to their boy and girls in their assets/property/business share, instead of treating the Girls as a burden and dispose off and then after marriage hide behind the word dowry.

We argue , give us this power for one year , we will prove it beyond reasonable drought , what your NCW and their associated organizations not able to achieve , we will achieve at faster process and will eliminate the whole "Natanki" of so called Dowry system. 

Who misused Dowry/ 498A/DVAct most? 

· Wife want to teach a lesson to Husband's family: 32.5%

· Wife want easy Divorce/Child Custody and fast money: 29.5%

· Wife who can't adjust in Husband's family.: 18.1%

· Wife having illegal relationship with other Man.: 10.8%

· Wife done marriage by hiding truth, like health, age, qualification .etc: 8.2% 

SFF members are committed and will continue their fight in the next level to stop the Legal Terrorism of India where in the help of so called women friendly LAWS misused to treat Indian men as Free ATM machine to extorted the money/property and such gender biased laws (498A/DV/CRPC125/Child custody) are responsible for creating a huge father less child society in India and seek your kind support as a Honest Citizen of India. 

How to delay DV case

Origanily posted by 498aFigther


This is how I delayed the DV process from USA

1) My wife made me and my father as the party in DV case

2) Summons were served to my father as he was in India. Summons were sent to me at my work place. Since it was a company address, somebody else signed for it and then later dropped it in my mail box. I refused the package (without opening) and gave it back to the company mail guy (shouldn't have refused them). They went back to India as refused. But the judge still didn't consider them as being delivered and issued fresh serving of summons. This time I had already talked to my company's mail guy. I sent back the summons and wrote on them "Addresse not found". The judge issued fresh summons. Again they were sent back. The whole process takes some time so we were getting a months date each time. Also, since the summons were never served on me, the DV process didn't make any progress. Finally, after one year, the judge accepted the serving of the summons (even though the delivery report specifically stated that somebody else signed for them), and ordered to proceed ex-parte on me.

3) We were monitoring all the events very closely through my father's lawyer. 

4) My wife never explicitly pressed for interim maintenance even though she has sought 1lakh per month in her original complaint. (she could not get it from my father anyways)

5) Now next date was set for her statement. Now round 2 of delay started. We submitted and application from my father's side on the very day she appeared for giving her statements. This application was to dismiss the DV case against my father citing "No Domestic" relationship. So the judge set another date for opposition's reply. On next date the judge dismissed our application. We then moved to the sessions court and the file went there. The application was dismissed there too but it consumed some time. 

6) My wife's statements were recorded in two-three dates. Then her cross-examination started. I prepared the cross and sent it to my father.

7) Regarding ex-parte, it was only that the case will go on without my presence. I could have gone later on and challenged the ex-parte order on very simple argument that as per the delivery report the summons were signed by another person and hence were not properly served on me. And eventually would have got the ex-parte order set aside. I think (but am not sure) that you can do this only before your wife's cross-examination.

8) My wife pursued the DV case very aggressively. After the case was ex-parte on me, they were getting a weeks or 10 days date. But we fought well. In all we were able to delay the process by almost 2 years without even giving her a single penny. 

9) In the whole process I was not represented by any counsel. In fact for legal reasons I didn't even know that such a case was going on me

10) Meanwhile I figured out where she was working and how much she was earning. She lied blatantly in her cross-examination that she was not working and needs monthly maintenance of 1 Lakh. My father filed crpc 91 to call records from the company where she was working. I think this scared her as she didn't want anybody in her company to know that she was involved in these cases and that she had lied on oath in the court. After this they started taking long dates (> 2 months) in the case.

So try to find some weakness that she might have. Also, for this whole time I was preparing my and my father's defense, gathering proofs, finding discrepancies in her complaint, preparing cross etc.

I also want to add 1 point "to delay DV" in addition: SEEK MEDIATION, it works dear! 

498aFigther