1. Do the final step after a longer time
Researchers say that those couples who get married after a longer relationship present fewer possibilities to divorce. Also, couples who are rushing to get to the altar, and those who are afraid to do it, tend to divorce faster than couples who get married when both partners are convinced that is the time to do this step.
2. Avoid living with the partner before marriage
In the last time, couples don't hesitate to live together before marriage. But researchers don't recommend it. It seems that those who live together before marriage tend to divorce more quickly than those who are separated until the moment of marriage.
3. Don't get married at a very early age
Statistics show that people who marry after age 25 tend to present less the risk of divorce.
4. Talk about the big issues that marriage involves
How consistent will be the family's budget? How many children do you want? Where are you going to live? It's very important to clarify these things before marriage. You can even ask for an expert's advice. Researches show that those who communicate more, understand each other better and solve their problems from the first stages, without leaving them to get worse.
5. Fights are normal as long as they are not exaggerated
Fights represent a normal part of a relationship. It matters the way in which you fight. Things that must be avoided: the criticism, offences, the defiance, the attack. It's important to reach an agreement in the end, although, most times, each partner claims that he is right.
6. Do different activities together
Each person has certain passions, which often don't match to the partner's preferences. This way, he goes to tennis every Saturday, while she goes swimming. Try to participate together to certain activities.
Surely you will find interesting things to do, that will satisfy you both.
7. Share the household tasks
When one of the partners does all the work in the house, and the other does nothing about, there will appear easily fights, discontent and the possibility of a divorce.
8. Try to be as polite to each other as you are to strangers
Most times we tend to be the less polite to the closest people. Try to be more careful to your partner and remember to say him sometimes: "thanks", 'please', than having a loud tone when you ask him for something.
9. Are there any problems? Ask for help!
One of you suffers from depression? Have you been cheated? Don't hesitate to talk about it. Once the problems are left to get worse by themselves, this will lead to conflicts and major misunderstanding.
10. Get married to someone who really wants that
It may seem strange, but there are people who don't want a marriage. It's possible to have a special relationship with a person, but when you bring into discussion the possibility of a marriage, the person will avoid talking about. So, rather than have a major disappointment, try to find a person who wants the same as you!
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Great tips! Thanks for the share and superb advice on how to avoid divorce and saving marriages.
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