The odds are against us finding a worthy women

Mar 27, 2009

Some people are fortunate enough to not run into players...so they generally don't have too many complaints. But get fooled a few times by women who objectify you as a walking wallet, or use you for some other means to one of their ends, and you will not sing the same tune. I don't think the message of this site is saying it's IMPOSSIBLE to find a decent woman. I think it's saying the odds are against us out there because so many women are playing games. While we are being told we should be nicer guys, more responsible, potential marriage material, and not jerks, women are being schooled BY THEIR MOTHERS on how to be more efficient players, more irresponsible, more immoral (see what the 60's did?).

Since you have no complaints I will assume (correct me if I am wrong) that you have not fallen victim to this (yet). And as for how many women are attracted to thugs, it depends on where you are. I happen to hear a lot of women admit (although not out loud and in public) that they want a rough guy...at least for a while. They may seek to marry a good man (the PC thing to say) but the trend seems to be to cheat on him with a thug or a jerk at some point because eventually she will become bored with the nice guy (this is really depressing, I resisted the temptation to be a dog and for my troubles I get cheated on? WTF? And I am not alone in this woe!).
I just wish women would FINALLY admit that they wanted equality and now they have it. They are, and always have been EQUALLY controlled by their hormones as much as men, and statistics show they are at least EQUALLY as likely to cheat on their mates. Women seem to be motivated by fear of being caught and exposed (depending on what they stand to gain or loose) rather than by what is right or wrong. Remember in a female's mind it's right if she can find the right "justification" for it at the time (she was unhappy, you weren't giving her enough excitement and passion in her life, you weren't bringing in enough money, the list goes on and on). But as men we know wrong is wrong (if we were taught to value principles) and are more likely to own up to doing bad shit and facing the music. But it seems women would rather slit your throat at night while you sleep than let their dirty laundry get out. And we are supposed to accept this? I say hell no!
A word to us guys who are tired of the bullshit: Bending over backwards to be what women want gives them power enough to get drunk silly on. How many of them are working on themselves to be what we want? (an honest woman who doesn't cheat would be a good start!) How many even give a crap about what we want? Look at all the women who use what they've got to get what they want...as long as they know some guy is going to want what they've got, they know they can use that sexual power to manipulate him (remember they have been learning this since they first started getting pretty and growing breasts). Don't be the one who falls into this game and GIVES the upper hand to someone who DOES NOT HAVE YOUR BEST INTERESTS IN MIND, that's suicide. Unless you are happy in your own life already, Fu*K what they want (they won't give a good got damn about your happiness anyway), worry about what YOU want and make sure YOU are happy. Then when YOU are on solid ground in your own life, THEN turn your attention to somebody else. That way even if she turns out to be a selfish, manipulative life draining parasite/vampire/succubus, you will not be at such a loss, you were happy with your own lot in life BEFORE she came along....big whoop now that she's gone...on to find someone WORTHY.
As long as we link our self esteem to what women do and our lives to what they want we will be screwed! Read: S-U-C-K-E-R-S. We will be their puppets to control. Don't be their tool. BE MEN. WATCH SPORTS. GROWL, GRUNT AND BEAT YOUR CHEST. KICK SOMEBODY'S ASS, LOL. OR PLAY CHESS OR GOLF OR WHATEVER YOU DO WITH YOUR TIME TO STAY SANE AND SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR GOALS. Whatever you do, BE YOU, and look for a woman who is BEING HERSELF. Only 2 people who are beyond these games can have a snowball's chance at happiness IMHO.