Most women do need to be dominated

Many if not most women do need to be dominated, some are quite dominant themselves, and actually need someone who is more submissive.

The problem as I see it is in training. There is a grand mismatch situation going on because people who didn't have the social structure to match their social status, were badly trained for their positions.

Someone who was raised in old money is not taught that having good manners means that they have to actually be submissive or believe themselves to be subservient to their ranking superiors. They are taught that this is a form of social lubrication, and that is all. Most I know don't even defer to their parents.

It's in the middle classes and poor that things got confused. Too many people actually bought into the trends and dogma, and they raised their young boys not only to be polite, but submissive.

Whenever one is training a child against their nature, something is bound to go wrong. Now we have a horde of educated, professional males who are socially inept because they were badly programmed.

My brother, a very nice guy and somewhat submissive, has no trouble meeting good women. For him, it's just a matter of choosing which one to stick with.

Why? Because he was allowed to play in the dirt, and get injured a few times. He rode a skateboard and has had more scabs and bruises than I can count.

He learned to get hurt, and he learned to heal.

He was also, like me, taught how to effectively handle bullies and other nasty authority figures.

Even though we were a middle class family coming from a poor family, we never had the luxury of trusting the system enough to buy its values.

When you've been the target of the beast enough, you learn its nature, and how to live and thrive in spite of it.

Nice guys who find themselves suffering at the mercy of the trend favoring bad boys need to wake up. The solution is not to become a bad boy, but to find your own niche outside of the system. So long as you are trying to operate (date) within the system, you will continue to suffer because it wasn't made for your good. It was made to put money in the pockets of people with exponentially more money than you.

This whole thing...the cosmetics industry, the diet industry, fossil fuels...It is fed by the choices that people make to buy and to use and to support.

The women who are spurning you are the women who are feeding that system that works against you. It is bigger than you...and it is a kind of a demon...maybe not a spiritual one but definitely an economic one. This is why it seems that the world is against you. This is why it seems that women are against you.

A drone is not expected to breed.

I'm not saying to throw away your electric shaver and stop driving a car. What I'm saying is to get in touch with your nature...with nature itself. When you do, you'll see the difference between nature and the system, and you'll recognize others who do as well.

You won't even want the women who are chasing the bad boys. You'll actually see what pussies the bad boys are, and view them and those who want them as pathetic.

A natural man can be submissive and still be strong. He can be dominant, and still be kind.

Don't be generic, and you will perceive life and people outside of generalities.

They're trained this way because it suits the needs of those in power. Women's liberation didn't have to come with male bondage. Even matriarchy doesn't have to supercede patriarchy.
What needed to happen to make a truly beneficial social change was for natural leaders to lead and natural followers to follow, regardless of gender, ethnicity, or any other superficial classification. There should be more female politicians and more male home makers.

What happenned was what always happens with humans. We can't seem to, as a group, get the equality thing. Even as we speak, countries that used to have good social aid systems are starting to question what a minimally decent quality of life is. On the face, people blabber alot about how people should be treated equally and fairly under the law, but when it comes down to it, it's all about the people in power staying in power.

They will screw all of us to meet their ends...and they'll do it from the inside out.

Have a good look at what was going on with the economy around the time that "thug love" became popular in the mainstream...and what happenned to it over the next 10 years.

What was the starting salary of a network administrator, chemist, or engineer then and now?

How many companies would propose to a prospective employee in these fields, that they work part time officially, but actually full time hours, with no benefits?

Think about this.

"Something is rotten..."

Meanwhile, this, "I need a thug," thing is reaching a fever pitch with no end in sight.

Granted, this has been great for some artists who were trying to tell folks what the gutters are like, but like Snoop Doggy Dog himself says...He is telling people what it's like so they'll make things better, not so they'll think it's a good thing. The gangsta style is one thing, and the life is quite another.

Americans have always been into the renegade individualist, but you'll note that whenever this was seriously in fashion, there was always an economic reason for it.

Good guys have to be thinking guys. Then and only then can they beat the system. The government doesn't want you to think, and neither do big businesses. They just want to keep their money.

If half the country is poor, they don't suffer from it. Do big businesses suffer in Mexico? In the Sudan? In Egypt?

Okay let's get really third world...Palestine. Do you see any Palestinian government officials wondering if they're going to eat tomorrow?

They will get fat off our sweat and labor no matter what we do. So here on the level of the proletariat, we have to live our lives as best as we can, and screw the government, big corporations, and their values.

Just because we have to work for them doesn't mean we have to live like drones in our off time.

Don't forget who butters your bread, but don't let them decide who's in your bed.